7 observations on dating for short guys
My profile cointained just about everything a potental partner could want to know about me before I wised up and realised that I would eventually tell someone who was interested in those things, now it just has a brief summary and i'm happier in my anonymity to the general surfing populace. I wouldn't dream of putting words like 'genuine' or 'honest' in my profile, because people who make a big deal about how honest and genuine they are, are usually anything but.
As for people who are rather sinister in t'internet land there are some, even in POF forum's always be aware people.... The honest and the genuine don't usually need to advertise the fact that they are honest and genuine.
Throughout the forums I see reams of threads and posts on people claiming to not good enough in one way or another - if you are telling people you are not good enough, then how the hell are you supposed to attract them?
You have just told them you are not worth it, so therefore they are going to take you at your word. Would you buy something of someone who claimed it to be not worth the money? Self pity is far from attractive - confidence and poise is.
Though the initial excitement and nervousness may fade, the security and love that replaces it is beautiful too. I was looking through poems on this site to identify with, yet I couldn't find one that fit my current emotions.
I tend not judge people by their words, but by their actions.This poem is about someone who sort of fades into your life and end up meaning the world to you. You are one of those people That so effortlessly slip Into my unsuspecting life. You are one of those people That can go unnoticed at first, Later only to have me wonder; How? Just something I noticed and thought I'd comment on."If your profile is honest, you cant be called a liar. We can always aspire, but sometimes we all fall a little short. i hope i never sound DESPRATE, but then i know i keep posting that im NOT looking , i know what you mean by the desperation guys n girls though , but i think we all know that when these fishes put 'genuine, kind and caring' we know deep down that its not 100% last gent ( well i say gent) i was dateing never asked how my little lady was, i believe he had the kind, caring stuff on his profile aswell ( not on this site i might add) now being as he has a little one himself ud think he would of asked about her? but what appeals to me in a profile is an individual's originality and creativity whether it be bullshit or truth if they can manage to write in a reader-friendly way it gives an indication that they are self aware and open and naturally know how to appeal to others sensibilities so by default they are clever and yeah ok manipulative to an extent but at the very least open - like them or don't like them you should admire them for their affrontery The sycophants and other asswipes....they oughta be persecuted and deleted the same way they wish someone who has something different to say which they imagine goes against the grain should be."People change with time and are affected by circumstance. I am looking for 'the one' but it is far from the driving force of my life, it is part of the intricate weave that takes up my days...