Dating for seniors widowers
Accurately remembering a lost loved one enables us to keep them in a place of honour in our hearts whilst also making space for the possibility of new love.
Whether widower or widow, dating again can bring you comfort and companionship after loss.
As the relationship ended because of a death, we can feel that it would never have otherwise ended.
In that sense, it can hold an ‘eternal’ quality in our hearts and minds, with our dead partner being elevated to the position of a ‘martyr’.
To bear this in mind is important for anyone serious about beginning to move forward.Do give yourself a chance – if your attempt at dating ends in tears, be kind and patient and applaud yourself for having given it a go.Remember to keep taking chances with love and with life. Hilda Burke is a West-London based integrative psychotherapist, who has been working with clients on a broad range of issues, including bereavement, infertility, addiction, abuse and depression for four years.Trying to meet a new person can be hard so at Widower dating we try to make that easier by allowing you to chat, message or wink at others to show your interested.So why not give Widower dating a chance and you never know you might meet someone that can share in those special moments. Harold from Devon I lost my Wife 5 years ago and like many others found it hard to move on.